We Never Know What is Inside a Person’s Heart

By: Siti Luthfah

            Actually when I was in senior high school. I never knew about buliying, reggression, defiant or violence. But now, I  knew about that. So I reflected to my experiences at senior high school. I thought that may be I ever did that L. But I hope that I never did that.

            When I was in senior high school. As we knew, at that time we are so young and may be talkactive or act playfully. Because of that, my class always colorful. Now, I want to share about my friend. My friend is a boy, he is tall, humoris, thin, and have a unique lip.  Because of his uniques’, another friends call him “Monyong”. I always hear that word in everyday. When  someone call “monyong”, I thought that he never angry, he just smile and seemed in comfortable. I don’t know why he is comfortable with his nick name. In the learning and teaching procces, another friends always call him “monyong”. Whereas there is a teacher in the classroom. When my teacher hear that another friend call him “monyong”, my teacher always said that we don’t say or call him like that.

            This is my experience in senior high school. If I refer to one of material in MMSEL class. There are about aggression, buliying, defiant, and violence. May be that case it can be a buliying or not a buliying. In this case it can be one of example in buliying if he was fill hurt. But if he was fill fine and comfortable with his nick name it ‘s fine. I thought at that time the teacher should give more explanation or giving the reason why the students don’t call someone with innapropiate nick name.

            If I become a teacher and get that experience. When my students call his or her friend with innapropiate nick name and it can be make their friend fill hurt. I should stop it and give more explanation, why they don’t do that. May be her or his friend seemed confortable with her or his nick name. But actually, we will never know what’s inside a person’s heart. So don’t call him “monyong”. So, I hope that I able to share and make them understanding about what the aggression, buliying, defiant and violence is and also what the impact of that.