A reflection made by Jenni Farida (2010110003)

“Serious Management Problem: Violence and Aggression”, that was the topic that I have learn last week in MMSEL class. From our discussion about that topic last week, I found any new terminology about Problem Behavior like bullying, aggressive, defiant, and others. The topic that have been discussed make me know that I have an experience about one of that problem behavior.

Bullying is when someone (a group or individually) hurting other with attacking (physically or verbally), spreading rumors, or others with any purpose and they do it over and over again. From what I learn about bullying, I found that when I’m in junior high school, one of my friend have ever do bullying to other friend. Let’s call him Eka. He has a tall and big body; he realized that he is strong. He had often showed his bad habit in front of the teacher. He felt that was cool for being a naughty boy. My teacher always tried to be patient when he started to make a problem in the class. There is one of my friends that always be his victim for bullying. Let’s say my friend is Aldi. Aldi has a short body, black skin, curly hair. At the first eka always make such a word to hurting Aldi, He did it verbally. Aldi appearance is the thing that makes Eka successfully make Aldi got hurt. Eka did it over and over again because he know that Aldi can’t never revenge it, he is weak. It is not the end, Eka continue to hurt Aldi physically. Since his behavior make others student  felt disturbing by that, then my teacher talked personally with this boy. After that the boy didn’t change his habit. He still make a problem in the class. My teacher take the next step to asking his parent came to the school. I don’t know how the teacher can make his parents come to the school. But I saw his mummy came to our school. My teacher and his mummy talked about this boy. I don’t know what happen with this boy after that. What I heard is this boy showed that bad habit because he had difficulties at home, he came from a broken home.

I am not really know what happen at the next. But I found that at the 3^rd grade, Eka’s behavior changed. He stopped to disturbing his friends. He started to become a nice person. That was really good. From this case I found that when we are become a teacher and found a student that have a problem of behavior, try to learn what he wants to show, what’s the trigger that makes him do that thing. Our students comes from many background, if they don’t have any good things to be their role play at home, WE CAN. =)

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